Would you Know if you were experiencing Stress? Part 3- Management

What steps are you taking to reduce your stress?  How are you managing the stress in your life?  Do you have stress reduction management plan? Now that you are more aware of the presence of stress and its impact in your life, what are you prepared to do about it?  In part 2 I talked about generating awareness of stress and in part 1, I discussed why people do not realise they are experiencing stress in their lives. If you’d like to know more about the signs of stress and why people lack the awareness please go back and read these blogs via the links.

How are you managing the stress in your life?

In the third and final part of this blog series about stress, I want to share some areas to point you towards, so that you can take an active role in your stress management.  Life coaching is all about generating awareness and taking action.  So as a life coach I want to support you in taking responsibility for your life and empowering you to make choices that create that life you want for yourself.   If stress is an issue for you, I am guessing you want to get it under control and start moving your life forward rather than allowing it to hold you back?

My personal journey with stress started with a lack of awareness.  It took a divorce and a health scare to get me to look at the things that were not working in my life.  I expected it to be something big.  I looked at career change.  Perhaps changing my partner would do the trick? What if I changed location? But none of the big things really changed anything significant at all.  So, I started looking at the small things.  As I explored, I started to make progress: feeling calmer; being more content; having a clear purpose and direction in life; being healthier; having more energy; feeling more confident.  Now I have my own stress management plan that I use every day to reduce stress and remain effective.

Stress Management

Stress happens for a reason.  It is one of your body’s ways of telling you that things are not right and could be better.  If you are experiencing stress, that is a good sign.  It means you are open to change.  In this world that tells you that stress is bad, that stress means you’re weak and that you can’t cope, stress is a problem.

If you can see it as a useful feedback tool, it helps.  Like feedback you might receive in an appraisal, as long as it is delivered in a constructive and compassionate way, you can hold it as useful and something to build on.  Stress is your body’s way of doing that.  It even points to where you want to make changes if you are prepared to listen.  At the same time, it also shows you where you are going well.  It gives you all the information you need to create a great stress management plan.

All it takes a little research and consideration as you interpret your body’s language of stress.  It is a personal journey, so these pointers are restricted to my experience and those of friends, family and clients.  You’ll probably need to fine tune the suggestions you use and do some additional research so that you “get it right” for you.

Meditation

In other words taming the “Monkey Mind”. Your mind is trained to think and sometimes it is hard to switch it off.  It needs training to allow it to step aside from time to time and be still.  Some people refer to it as “getting out of your head”.  The thing is, where do you go to “get out of your head”?  One answer is the breath.  Another is the body.  Meditation uses both to bring the “Monkey Mind” under control.  Inevitably your mind will wonder to thoughts (in your head).  When you notice that happening, bring your attention back to your breathing or your body.  We all struggle with this attention and focus.  That is natural.

Please don’t chastise yourself or give up.  The more you practice, the more you cultivate your ability to be in your body or with your breath rather than in your head.  As your head slowly loosens its grip on your attention over time, you will find yourself getting calmer and more peaceful.  You will focus better and get less irritable.  When you see positive progress, please don’t give up either.  Keep going.  It builds and develops.  Compassion and self- understanding naturally develop from here too.  There are many meditation techniques.  One very popular App is Head Space.   Meditations that I use regularly are from Nourish the Flame Within.

Mindfulness

Jon Kabat Zinn, the founder of Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction technique (MBSR) says that “Mindfulness means paying attention in a particular way: on purpose, in the present moment, and nonjudgmentally.” Merriam- Webster Dictionary refers to Mindfulness as “The practice of maintaining a nonjudgmental state of heightened or complete awareness of one’s thoughts, emotions, or experiences on a moment-to-moment basis.”

It is similar to meditation in that it brings your attention away from the past and the future and plants you in this moment.  Though you carry the benefit of meditation with you all day, the advantage of Mindfulness is that you can use it anywhere and anytime.  Just focus on your breath, a part of your body, the food you are eating, a sound in your environment, a thought, a feeling and you become present.  In presence there is no stress, worry or anxiety.  You are in this moment and so act from this place of peace and power.

Centring

There are many forms of centring. I use a technique that comes out of martial arts, taught and practised by Paul Linden.  Bringing your awareness to your body, balancing it in your standing or sitting posture and then relaxing through the centre of the body from the muscles in your face and neck, through the chest and abdomen and finally the pelvic floor.  Now bring in your loving heart and radiate that loving feeling out like a light or flame.  Practice this and then use it in situations in which you experience stress.

Sleep

Our relationship with sleep has changed over the centuries. According to Arianna Huffington’s “Sleep Revolution”, the idea of a solid, straight eight hours’ kip is a modern phenomenon.  Waking in the wee hours was a common, even expected thing, when you might get up and use the quiet time for writing, art, reflection or contemplation, even love- making.  Sleep- inspired insight was to be captured and expressed in some way.  Then, you would go back to sleep and rise for the day refreshed, having honoured the deep connection sleep brings with the subconscious.

Now, it’s seen as a problem if we wake in the night.  Creating more stress and anxiety as a result.  Perhaps using that time for creativity would be more useful than worry?  Maybe expression rather than medical prescription would bring sleep to you more easily, healthily and naturally?  Why not start a journal?  What about painting, drawing or pottery?  Your creations don’t have to be any good.  You just want to express whatever is bubbling up inside. I have done this for years.  I have written books based on my late- night musings.  They started as scribblings in notebooks for private viewing and personal reflection.  They’ve grown into something larger, but that was never the point.

Rest and relaxation

I am a doer.  You probably are too.  Yet, we are not human doings.  We are human beings.  Sometimes we simply need to be.  To rest, be still and quiet, to be with friends and family and relate.  Time used to be the most valuable commodity.  We are often paid by the hour.  Yet, in this age of technology, we can maximise our time and live and work like a machine.  We are not machines.  Our energy needs replenishing in a healthy and natural way.  Sufficient sleep and healthy, balanced diet are part of that equation.

Rest and relaxation are essential as well.  All spiritual traditions have a rest day- the Sabbath.  I learned recently that the reason for this is that rest and celebration are all part of the working process.  Use this time to recharge, rejuvenate and reflect on your journey, so that you have energy for the next step and you can set off in the right direction.  This down time for joyous living with a movie, friends, a good meal, theatre or cinema, reading, an indulgent massage or spa day with girlfriends, or an outward- bound day with your male friends is essential.  In our busy lives we give little time or importance to these things and often fail to approach them with this mindset of celebration and joy.  They are not another thing on your to do list, though they can become so.  They are a celebration of life.

Diet

This was the biggest surprise to me on my stress journey. Aside from caffeine, which is common knowledge as a possible source of anxiety and stress- behaviour, it had not occurred to me that food could be a source as well.  On a trip to Japan, eating traditional Japanese food, I noticed how calm my body felt.  When I returned to UK and resumed my normal diet, I noticed the familiar edgy and nervous feelings in my body returned.  Research and kind instruction from Charlie Hart showed me that sugars, hydrogenated fats and gluten are sources of stress for the body through a process called inflammation.   Once I reduced these or cut them out of my diet, my body has felt so much better and it is easier to regulate my weight.  I also feel more energised, calmer and overall healthier.

Exercise and Movement

This is a great stress manager for many reasons. Exercise requires time away from the things that stress you: your work; the kids; your head; the incessant problems etc.  Often time away gives you space and new perspectives.  It may even give you the solution you’re looking for.  Exercise moves your muscles and keeps them strong, limber and flexible.  Tension is less likely to build up leaving your loose and pain free.  The added oxygen in the body has great health benefits and makes the brain work better and gives you more focus.  The additional energy you get will make you more productive and help you to think “out of the box” for creative solutions.  Exercise makes you calmer, more resilient and better able to focus and concentrate.  It also helps remove toxins from the body more efficiently.  Good abdominal breathing will also do this.

So, find the exercise that you love.  Go for walks in the day.  Stretch regularly. It doesn’t have to be a yoga or Pilates class.  Just lightly move your body rather than remaining sedentary.  If you want something more high impact, running, swimming or cycling might take your fancy.  Develop a loving relationship with exercise.  Many people view it as too hard.  If you bite off more than you can chew, it probably is too hard.  Start with a walk rather than driving somewhere.  Take a turn around the office. Use the stairs.  Your body will love you for it.

Saboteur

Holds the self- limiting beliefs that hold you back and make you feel stuck. Listening to this voice can be very stressful.  This is the voice that says, “You aren’t good enough” and asks you “Why bother?”  It sabotages your efforts to move forward and begs you to remain safe.  While this has the advantage of keeping you in your comfort zone it also feels stressful to remain stuck where you are when something inside of you desires to move forward.  Also, its negative self- talk can undermine your confidence and self- belief and increase your worry and anxiety.  In short, the saboteur, or Gremlin, can run riot in your mind and run and control your life unconsciously.  Life coaching can offer you strategies to by- pass your saboteur and work with it to overcome your limiting beliefs.  A highly recommended book “Taming your Gremlin” has many strategies you can use as well.

Awareness and Expression of Emotions

Points 1- 8 lead to greater awareness of emotions, allowing separation from these emotions and express them in a useful and constructive manner. We have a complicated relationship with emotion.  The heat and power of it can be overwhelming.  So, we push it away often.  This itself can be a source of stress.  Emotions are information, either telling you there is an issue to be addressed or something that you like and want more of.  Ignoring or suppressing emotion long term means build- up of stress. Expressing emotion releases stress.

The above techniques will help with gaining awareness of your emotional state in any given moment.  Then you can practice expressing that emotion in an appropriate way.  Speak about it, write about it, draw or paint about it, dance about it, sing about it…….. you get the idea.  The energy of suppressed emotion does untold damage to the body.  Express it in a way that does not harm others.

Removing stressful environmental influences is important if you can.

Experiencing stress is unavoidable.  It is part of life and experienced short term is vital for your survival.  Step out in front of a bus by accident and feel that adrenaline surge move you into action to get out of the way!  Yet long term it is detrimental to your health.  Try your best to actively remove sources of stress from your life:

  • Interact with family that upset you as little as possible.
  • Cut “friends” out of your life that you know are not supportive.
  • Have at least one space at home that is clutter free or even better if you can, have as little clutter in your entire living space as possible.
  • Make the commute as calming as possible by leaving more time to travel, have books to read or listen to or listen to music.
  • If your town or city causes you stress, get out into nature or, if you can and you want to, move to a place where nature is more prevalent.
  • Is your stressful job really that fulfilling?  Is it really worth being kept up all night for?  If not, perhaps looking for new employment or career path would bring you a better quality of life.

If you do decide you want, or have to, put up with things the way they are, you have all the points from 1- 9 above to help you manage them.

Why is this so important?

Long term stress diminishes your Light.  It stops you living your life fully and bringing your gifts to the world.  Stress management allows you to access the wisdom that lies within you and share that knowledge and understanding with others.  Stress has you playing small because that is the only capacity it leaves you able to work with.

Management of stress keeps the stressors to a minimum, allowing you to remain focused, energised and inspired.  I wish for you that you live in your greatness, that life is fulfilling and your purpose, whatever that means to you, is lived out in every area of your life.  Give yourself that chance by relieving some of the pressure you are under.  Use the resources in this blog to free yourself.  Then you will have the energy and insight to make as great a positive impact on the world as you wish and feel the confidence and completeness of living that truth.

Over to you

Which of these stress busters do you use?  Are there any that are new to you?  Which ones will you experiment with?  What steps will you take to create a stress management plan?  Do you already have one?  What benefits have you noticed since implementing your stress management plan?  How could you improve it?  Please comment in the box below or message me on Twitter,Facebook or LinkedIn.  I’d love to hear from you.  And of course, if there is anything I can do to assist you, please don’t hesitate to get in touch.

Pass it on

Why not pass this blog on to a friend, colleague or family member you think might be struggling with stress and would benefit from a stress management plan?  Or at least some new ideas about busting stress.

Would you Know if you were experiencing Stress? Part 2- Awareness

Here are some of the signs to look out for that tell you that you might be experiencing stress

As I said in Part 1 of this blog series, stress is a natural part of life.  We all experience it.  If you think that you do not, perhaps you have a different word for it?  May be instead of stress you would say you are anxious, worried, excited, challenged, driven, focused, frustrated, upset, in anticipation, overwhelmed, exhausted, tired or withdrawn.  Whatever the word, my meaning of stress is that there is something in this lifestyle of yours that generates the Stress Response in you.

Are you experiencing stress?

The Stress Response is a term for a group of physiological symptoms generated when you are feeling threatened in some way.  You are getting ready to fight or run away.  So, you might experience quickened heart rate, dilated blood vessels and shallow breathing accompany increased levels of adrenaline and cortisol (the stress hormones).  For short periods this is beneficial for your health and well- being.  Long term however, and the negative impact on your immune system, mental health, quality of sleep, productivity, overall resilience, creativity, relationships and vitality are immense.  Here are some of the signs to look out for that tell you that you might be experiencing stress (or whatever word you might use):

  • Do you find it hard to get to sleep?  If you wake up in the night, do you struggle to go back to sleep?  Do you feel tired in the morning?  Are you getting less than 7 hours sleep a night?  If you say yes to any of these, you may well be experiencing stress.  These may happen as a consequence of your stress.  They may also be contributing factors to your stress.  Either way, good quality sleep is essential for many reasons.  If you do struggle to sleep or wake up in the night and can’t get back to sleep, this audio might be useful.
  • Do you eat a lot of sugary foods or foods high in fat?  Can you get through the day only if you have sugary and caffeinated drinks?  Sugar, fat and caffeine interfere with your body’s natural rhythms, disrupting sleep and other natural highs and lows of your day.  Many processed foods place your body under a lot of burden, damaging blood vessels, creating bloating and inflammation.  Not to mention the effect of artificial chemicals in our food that poison the body and bring it into imbalance.  All of this is stressful for your body and impacts on your overall ability to cope.
  • Muscular Tension. Light, regular exercise and movement leave the body feeling flexible, mobile and limber.  Sitting still all day, barely moving your body, makes your muscles short, tight and painful.  It puts the body under a lot of stress.  Think how lovely it feels to have a stretch at your desk after you’ve been working at your computer for a couple of hours.  Feels great right? Also, little body movement leaves people in “their heads”.  In other words, listening to the logical and rational part of the mind rather than balancing it with the instinct and intuition of which the body is a part.  Muscles also become tense due to unexpressed emotion.  Emotions are energy in motion.  If they are not expressed, they are internalised (in muscles and internal organs), another source of stress for the body.  Muscular tension from all sources pulls the body out of alignment, generating postural stress that can have long term impact such as shoulder, knee and hip replacement operations, diminished mobility, nerve damage and quality of life.
  • Suppressed Emotion. Are you the type of person who never feels or expresses emotion?  Or if you do it is usually fits of anger or rage?  Do you have a “stiff upper lip” or are you known as the “strong one” in the family/ relationship?  This can lead to a lot of stress in the body.  Gabor Mate, in his book “When the Body Says No- the cost of hidden stress”, explores the impact of suppressed emotion and how it can lead to many debilitating/ life threatening diseases such as MS, ME, numerous types of cancer, motor neuron disease, IBS and more.  In short, the stress on the body from unexpressed emotion is so great, it manifests over time as physical illness.
  • Grinding/ clenching your teeth. This is a sure sign you are experiencing stress.  If people mention that you are doing either of these, it’s a strong indicator you are stressed.
  • Holding your breath. Or breathing in a shallow manner.  This can be a response to stress.  It can also become a habit that keeps the body in a more heightened anxious state.  Learning deep breathing exercises will lower blood pressure, deactivate the stress response in the body and generally make you feel more calm, relaxed and mobile.  Belissa Vranich’s book Breathe gives detailed instructions and exercises about how to breathe more effectively for better health.
  • Lack of focus. The Stress Response makes you very insular.  Therefore, focus on other people, projects at work, problem solving and other things that require focus just doesn’t happen.  It’s your body’s way of saying “Stop paying attention to other things, I need some attention here!!!!”
  • Short temper and irritability. If your body is tired and debilitated by long term exposure to the effects of the Stress Response, you have no or very little reserves in the tank for additional stress.  My experience of this is that as a response to feeling powerless or out of control, we tend to lash out to protect ourselves.  This is a sure sign that you are reaching the end of your tether.  Consciously activating the Relaxation Response will give you more reserves to tackle any additional stress whilst keeping off “Red Alert”.
  • A little worry is healthy.  We can use it to assess situations and scan for trouble before the event.  Anxiety takes it to another level, assessing endless scenarios without resolution.  This is usually a clear sign that you are stressed.  There is a much calmer life for you to enjoy beyond anxiety if you can find the ways to manage your stress.
  • Feeling like life has no purpose or direction. Life without purpose has no direction.  Without meaningful goals, aligned to what is most important to us (whatever that may be), life can feel pointless and meaningless.  We can feel powerless and that comes with its own stress.  A lack of energy, vitality, engagement, power, strength and focus.  Purpose infuses our life with direction and meaning that gives momentum, energy, pace and vitality to life.

Natural Ways to manage stress

Please note, this is not an exact science.  There might be many reasons why you are experiencing these symptoms.  If you suspect stress at all, consult your doctor and a healthy dose of common sense and discover the ways YOU can undo the effects of stress.  Rather than pop a pill which might be the easiest way to deal with it, I invite you to explore more natural ways to manage your stress.  I am not a trained medical professional, so please do not take my word as gospel.  However, there is something empowering about listening to your body and intuition and finding the right answer for you.  Managing the stress is the key.  I discuss some of the strategies I have discovered on my travels with stress in Part 3.

Over to You

Do you notice that you often do not sleep well?  Perhaps you sleep very soundly.  Or maybe you are affected by someone who has disturbed sleep?  Are there parts of your body that get very tight?  Is that due to lack of movement, emotional stress, worry, anxiety or body misalignment?  Or is your body limber, relaxed and agile?  Would you say you were an emotional eater?  Do you find it hard to focus?  Or do you have laser- type focus and excellent concentration?  Are you more irritable than you used to be?  Perhaps you are more calm and unflappable than ever before?

Do you feel lost in your life and feel life is getting smaller?  Or is your life expanding and you are discovering new horizons?  I’d love to hear your experiences and grow this body of wisdom in the Potentiality Coaching community.  Please share in the comment box below or on social media.  Thank you.

Pass it On

If what I have been talking about sounds like someone you know, why no forward this blog to them and ask them to give it a read.  It might be the turning point for them to start listening to their body and recognise the signs that stress is present.  It’s so easy to deal with.  Awareness is the first step.  The next is action.  See you next time for Part 3.

Would you Know if you were experiencing Stress? Part 1- What’s getting in the Way

People do not seem to realise they are experiencing stress.  They just don’t see it!

Would you know if you were stressed?  Do you have a sense of what the signs might be if you were experiencing stress?  Do you notice when other people are stressed?  Are there occasions when people say you are stressed and you have no idea what they are talking about?

Having recently run a workshop on stress and talked to many people over the years about stress one thing comes through loud and clear:

Stress is rife in our lives and many of us are totally unaware that we are living with it.

People do not seem to realise they are experiencing stress.  They just don’t see it!  But that does not mean they are not affected by it.  Nor does it mean family, friends and colleagues are not impacted by it as a result.  Having been one of those people myself, it is hard to stand around the side lines and watch people struggle with its affects.  As a result, they go about their daily lives oblivious to the signs and symptoms of stress thinking that all is well.

The Impact of Stress

I’m sure you know many of the statistics about stress.  But just in case you don’t, long term stress can negatively impact your:

  • Life expectancy
  • Quality & duration of sleep (sleeplessness, disturbed sleep, nightmares, fitful sleep)
  • Behaviour (withdrawal, irritability, restlessness, depression)
  • Relationships (impacting those closest to us)
  • Health & disease (increase risk of heart attack, stroke, cardiovascular disease)
  • Interest in sex & sexual performance
  • Diet & weight (increase in fats & sugars raises weight or diminished appetite reduces weight)
  • Resilience
  • Productivity at work
  • Motivation

Stressed? Not me!

So being unaware that you are experiencing stress can come at quite a cost.  I will discuss the signs you want to be looking for, that tell you stress is present in your life and perhaps having an adverse effect on your health in Part 2 of this series.  Before I do that, I just want to explore why people don’t notice the stress in their lives:

  1. The signs creep up slowly over time. You live with yourself 24/7 and often do not notice any changes that might happen in your life, except for the dramatic ones: the surprise birthday party, the heart attack, a heat wave or cold snap, not being able to get into those trousers or tops you once used to fit into, a new addition to the family.  Look in the mirror daily and you do not see yourself getting older.  You do not notice your shoulders getting tighter or your waistline bigger.  You’ve breathed so shallow for years that you do not realise you’re barely getting any air at all.  You get used to what you know and may not question whether this is best for your health and well- being.
  2. Social and cultural norms. Countries, regions, religions, companies, cities, individuals, cultures, towns and families all have their traditions.  From what we eat and drink, to how we socialise, where and how we work, what exercise we do, where we pray and so on.  Sometimes these norms are great for our health and well- being.  Other times, these habits are not.  It’s hard to do things differently to the rest.  If other people don’t seem to experience stress as a result of these habits, then surely nor do I.  Yet, we are all individuals and what may be calming to others could be causing untold stress on someone else.  And remember, they may be suffering from the same lack of awareness about the effect stress is having on them as you are.  We just don’t want to go there in our minds, so we don’t.  Nothing changes and the effects of stress mount.
  3. Stress isn’t something that happens to me. This is the misguided vision I had for years.  Because I am a martial artist, meditator, student of philosophy, calm, confident and thinking of myself as a spiritual practitioner, how could I possibly have stress?  As a result, I’m not looking for the signs.  Struggling to sleep?  Whatever the reason, it can’t be stress!  Experiencing shortness of breath?  Whatever the reason, it can’t be stress!  Finding it hard to focus?  Whatever the reason, it can’t be stress!  You’re getting the idea.  So, maybe you think that being stressed is something that happens to other people.  Or you have a super power that means you can survive on 4 hours sleep a night.  Trust me, we all experience stress.  If it is long- term, it will have adverse effects on your health.  Pay attention to the signs before it’s too late.
  4. Stress isn’t that important to worry about. Some people just don’t think stress is anything to worry about.  Everyone struggles with it and gets on OK.  What’s all the fuss?  It’s a bit like President Trump saying there’s no climate change problem.  Everyone knows that there is, but he doesn’t think it’s worth doing anything about. The attitude that “I’ll be fine” or “I’ve got it covered” I hear a lot.  As a result, the unchanged life style leads to heart attacks, strokes, cancer and more.  These people that I care about seem surprised when it happens!!!!!
  5. I’m too busy to change anything, or change is too hard. Yes, to make changes in your life style does mean things will be different.  In people’s minds that usually means things will be worse!  Our resistance to change is often because we are invested in the old way of doing things: not rock the boat with family or friends; stay inside my comfort zone; surely this tough stage will pass even if I ignore it; I don’t have the time; what about my career, relationship, income etc.; I don’t need to change; how will I be perceived if I change things; what if I fail; how will life be different if I succeed.  Resisting change is normal- there is a degree of uncertainty and that comes with its own challenges.  If we do not make changes, nothing changes.  There are signs telling you that change is necessary, even essential, if only you would pay attention. So, please listen.

Do any of these five points sound like you?  If so, you might be experiencing stress and not realise it.  Left untreated for many years, it could have adverse effects on your health, well- being, quality of life, length of your life and the degree to which you enjoy your life.

The Body has the answer

It’s great that you are deep in the cut and thrust of life, building your business, developing your career, nurturing your family, creating your life.  To be immersed in life is wonderful.  Sometimes you get caught up in the momentum and think “What’s next……?”  As soon as the last job is done, you’re rushing off to do the next one.  If you don’t take time to check in from time to time with how your body feels, you’ll never know where you are at…….. and you may well miss the signs that stress is building up.

Your body is the answer.  It will tell you whether it is experiencing stress. Your head may tell you that there is nothing to be concerned about.  It’s too busy being busy.  Try this instead.  Take time to connect to your body.  How?  Centring, mindfulness and meditation are great ways to connect in.  Also, Mindful Movement workshops are a great fun way to connect in with your body and begin rebuilding a relationship with your body again.  As a result, your body will become a friend, a confidante, a trusted partner.  You will reap the benefits of living mindfully, managing stress effectively and enjoying life fully for mind, body and soul.

Over to You

What is your attitude to stress?  Is it something other people have but not you?  Are you too busy to deal with it or do you make time in your day for managing it effectively?  Is stress another “Climate Change” issue or are you taking it seriously?  Do you know you have to deal with the stress in your life or are you too busy to change?  So, let’s get a conversation going and bring the effects of stress to people’s attention.  Then they can take control and begin to live more fully and vibrantly.

Pass it On

If what I have been talking about sounds like someone you know, why not forward this blog to them and ask them to give it a read?  It might be the turning point for them to start listening to their body and opening to the possibility that stress is in their lives.  It’s so easy to deal with.  Awareness is the first step.  The next is seeing stress in action in our lives.  So we’ll be covering that in Part 2. See you next time.